It hasn’t always been easy to be thankful this year. The overwhelming changes to our lifestyles have kept us focused on our “rights”, our health. and for some even survival. Patience is wearing thin among the masses; and lack of patience doesn’t naturally lead to gratefulness.
But while most modern-day Americans have not faced the continual testing of our fortitude until now, there were certainly generations before us who encountered much greater challenges than we have had in 2020. And there are countless people around the world who are still experiencing worse things than we will ever have to endure.
My family’s visit to a third-world country many years ago forever etched in my heart a visible example of this principle of truth: being thankful is a choice and has little to do with one’s life circumstances. As we lived in relative luxury during our short time there compared to our new friends and neighbors, we witnessed their hearts being full of gratitude and joy every single day we were there. It didn’t matter that they lived in near poverty and were continually trying to recover from a devastating hurricane. They chose to be truly grateful for God’s work in their lives and found joy in the small, everyday things.
We have the same opportunity – maybe even more this year because none of our lives have seemed completely “put together” in 2020. Making the choice to be thankful takes intentionality; it’s far easier to give in to the negativity around us and feel sorry for ourselves. But what our Central American friends taught us firsthand is what the apostle Paul wrote about in Philippians 4:4-7: thankfulness and joy go hand in hand, and the peace that comes from God is a result we can count on when we choose to rejoice and give thanks.
I don’t know what your situation is this Thanksgiving Day. Maybe you’re all alone, or maybe you are with family or friends. Chances are things are not “normal” for most of us. But having a grateful heart doesn’t depend on having things a certain way; it depends on how we look at life’s challenges and whether we choose to see the glass half empty or half full. Let’s choose to focus on our blessings – which are many – and not our troubles, even if they are also many. And let’s not do it for just one day. Let’s agree to be intentional about choosing to be grateful every day. “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”